not the onlydeadbeats.
"She" can be one too!
When you look at the deadbeat sites, ask yourself if you're
behaving like a deadbeat, and remember that men are victims of "her"
deadbeat mentality also.
Whether you are a custodial parent, a non-custodial parent, a
first wife, a second wife, a girlfriend, a boyfriend, ask yourself if you're behaving in
the best interest of the child.
Tuesday night 11/07/2000
Bm calls the kids' line for ss. My daughter tells bm,
"He's doing homework, he'll call you back when he's done." Bm
said, "I want to talk to him ASAP!" My daughter says ok,
and hangs up.
8pm ss is done with homework. He doesn't want to call his mom. He wants
his stepsisters to tell her he's doing homework. I said I wouldn't
put them in the position of lying for him. I told
him I'm just passing on the message and what he does with it is up to him.
He doesn't call her.
Bm calls the kids' line 8:15pm, my daughter gives ss the phone cuz she
knows he finished his homework at 6:30pm.
Ss tells bm he's doing
homework and can't talk.
*shaking my head* Bm thinks my girls and I lie to her. She
doesn't realize that if the girls gave him the phone, he's done with
does what his mom and her parents have always taught him.
Court order says not to intrude on parent's conversation with ss.