@'98 Bm told dh's wonderfulexgirlfriend that she wouldn't put it
dh and I to make 12yo ss have sex with my 13yo daughter so he'd want
to live with us. Wonderfulexgirlfriend called dh to let him know.
9/3/99 The custody evaluator calls. Bm told the evaluator Mark signed
papers long ago giving up all custody rights. Dh asked the evaluator,
"Did (bm) bring in these papers?!?" She said no. Dh
reiterated that he'd never signed over all custody rights.
99 Bm told the evaluator that dh is perverted and she hoped
that I was having a good effect on him regarding that.
*grin* Yes I am, and enjoying every minute of it.
ps. Bm hasn't had a relationship, let alone a date, since
@9/99 Ss is sobbing after a phone call with his mother about his mother's depression since
he left to live with his dad. He's wracked with guilt. I sit this tall 13yo ss on my
lap to comfort him and decide he needs to know. "(Ss) Haven't
you ever noticed your mom's depression before?" He replies
no. I said, "She's bipolar." He replies, "OMG, I
know what that is!" I said, "How do you know what that
is?" He says the name of a tv show. He calmed right down.
Things made sense now. He hasn't let her "sadness" manipulate him
9/2000 My daughters are talking about their dad trying to use guilt,
"Don't you want to be with me?" Ss says, "Yeh, my mom
does that too." They're all learning the sometimes painful
lesson of recognizing toxic guilt and