Men are
not the only deadbeats.
"She" can be one too!
When you look at the deadbeat sites, ask yourself if you're
behaving like a deadbeat, and remember that men are victims of "her"
deadbeat mentality also.
Whether you are a custodial parent, a non-custodial parent, a
first wife, a second wife, a girlfriend, a boyfriend, ask yourself if you're behaving in
the best interest of the child.
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@ '96 I was angry with my daughter. Ss intruded. I explained it
wasn't his business. He didn't have to fix this. He said with
confusion and exasperation,
"At home I do!?!" Dh explained that my daughter and I would
resolve our own problems.
Dh and I were having a heated discussion. Ss intruded. We again
explained that we were big people and could resolve our differences
without his help. It took ss months to be able to trust that the
people in our home could resolve differences. He said at his mom's
home they just go on and on about everything, and rarely is anything
resolved. They always want everyone involved in going in
circles.
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